Free Guide to EPIC Date Night
Free Guide to EPIC Date Night

The 80/80

A New Model for a Happier,
Stronger Relationship

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A New Model of Marriage

If you think back to your grandparents, it’s unlikely that they ever had a fight about whose turn it was to make dinner, or whose business trip was more important. But in our modern age, as we strive for partnerships between equals, an unintended consequence is a lot of fighting about what’s fair: who is doing more, cares more or tries harder.

In The 80/80 Marriage, Nate and Kaley Klemp use hundreds of in-depth interviews with couples from all walks of life to give you the map and tools for how to live beyond fairness, and into a new model: The 80/80 Marriage. This requires a shift in our mindset - out of scorekeeping and into radical generosity. It also requires a new structure - one based on shared success with clear values, priorities, boundaries and roles give you the freedom and fun to enjoy your lives - and each other - at a whole new level. 

The book launches in Winter 2021 and will be published by Viking/Penguin Life (Penguin Random House).

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The Authors 

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Nate Klemp, PhD

Nate is a writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur. Along with Eric Langshur, he is the co-author of the New York Times Bestseller Start Here: Master the Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing (Simon & Schuster: North Star Way) and is a weekly columnist for Inc. Magazine. He is also the co-founder of LIFE Cross Training (LIFE XT), a company that brings mindfulness training to leading firms in law, consulting, and healthcare.  Nate holds a B.A. and M.A. in philosophy from Stanford University and a PhD from Princeton University

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Kaley Klemp

Kaley is one of the nation's leading experts on small-group dynamics and leadership development. She is a TEDx speaker and the author of three books, including the Amazon Bestseller The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership, The Drama-Free Office, and 13 Guidelines for Effective Teams. A favorite with Young Presidents Organization (YPO) forums and chapters, Kaley has facilitated retreats for more than 400 member and spouse forums throughout the world. Kaley is a graduate of Stanford University, where she earned a B.A. in International Relations and an M.A. in Sociology, with a focus on Organizational Behavior.

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