Couples have always had to navigate differences in risk. And yet, over the last couple months, the potential for explosive conflict around risk has grown exponentially. Because now, everything is risky.
Should you get a haircut? Or is that taking on too much risk?
Should you get a check up at the doctor? Is going or not going the bigger risk?
Should you let your child play with a friend? Or will that turn your kid into a disease vector?
If you're lucky, you and your partner agree on...
We know, could there be a more depressing way to start a newsletter?
Probably not. But, let’s face it, we are in the midst of a global pandemic, witnessing the spread of a disease that is killing thousands of people each day.
Hopefully, you won’t get coronavirus. And if you do, hopefully you won’t end up in the hospital or worse, dying.
But it might be worth using this moment, when death has been thrust into the forefront of life, as a catalyst to consider whether you...
Most working couples have tasted the amazing benefits of outsourcing. Things like having a school with administrators and teachers where you can send your kids. Having a cleaner who comes by every once in a while. Or having a babysitter who watches the little ones when you go out on date night.
Outsourcing is often the ultimate antidote to resentment and fights over what is or isn’t fair. So it follows that the temporary death of outsourcing results in a reemergence of all sorts...
We thought we’d ask because this is a real question for many couples.
In the abstract, getting stuck together in a small space for months at a time sounds downright erotic. Don’t people travel long distances and pay tons of money for that sort of thing?
But then there's the reality of quarantine. The daily stream of heart-wrenching news updates. The background hum of stress and anxiety. And the fact that you now see each other, your pets, and your...